I am thinking about jumping on board with a weekly meme called
Weekly Wrap-Up which is hosted by Kris at
Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers.
I am so confused by this past week that I am feeling the need to type out what happened just so that I can prove to myself that a few days did not simply vanish from the timeline of my life. I would love to be able to link to the Weekly Wrap-Up mentioned before, but I am not sure much of my post is actually HOMESCHOOL related and thus I will continue to ponder my future contributions.
Here is my week:
Sunday we worshiped at home. I blogged about it
HERE. I knew that my father-in-law (FIL) would be coming to visit on Monday. Most often grandparents arrive from their long car drives in the afternoon or evening. I remember deciding not to do much on Sunday, to kick back and take it easy. I remember thinking that my house looked lived in but my FIL knew that and that I merely needed to plan meals (I like to spoil him with yummy food as he is on the road often without access to home cooked goodness) and then I needed to clean the boy bathroom. The main occupants are two boys under 7... need I say more?
Monday:
The kids slept in until 7:30 or so. Grandpa drove in at 8:30!! I still had pajamas on. I brushed my hair maybe an hour after he had been here.
Monday was a busy stressful day for me. I REALLY wanted to provide good meals for my family and Pa Pa but I also wanted to be present WITH my family but I also had a crazy, busy Tuesday in store for me. Tuesday would include: Women's Bible study, then some MUST do shopping, then a funeral, then a Master Gardening class, before collapsing into bed.
So Monday, I fixed breakfast and served it. We did a belated Christmas. I figured out lunch and realized there were many ingredients that I needed for my menu plan to work. So I took a shower, ran to the store and worked most the day on meals for Monday (Lunch: Left overs; Supper: Chili) and Tuesday (Breakfast: Blueberry Coffee Cake; Lunch: Lasagna; Supper: Garlic Lamb). Gracie was in our bedroom in the pack-n-play which meant that getting ready for bed was full of tiptoeing.
Then
Tuesday began. Hubby had taken Sunday night and Monday night off from his paying job and I was SO VERY THANKFUL that the children had both Hubby and Pa Pa at home. Doing my Tuesday schedule with a 2, 4 and 6.5 year old in tow would have been VERY VERY HARD.
Tuesday looks better as a list:
1- Mix up coffee cake and get it in oven, shower and ready to be away from home ALL day, dress in funeral appropriate clothes, pack up, feed family and self (I often forget to feed myself) and take off.
2- Head to bible study with two phone calls along the way adjusting plans for the day. Bible study was great.
3- Stop at a store for diapers and other needed items. We were down to one pull up the night before. Run through fast food for a fast lunch.
4- Met Hubby at the funeral of a cousin. Attend funeral. Attend refreshment/fellowship afterwards.
5- Rush home, change into REAL clothes (read: jeans and sweatshirt), rush as fast as the slick roads would let me to get to my Master Gardening class late. :(
6- Sat watching a tele-lecture for 3 hours scribbling notes on paper due to a miscommunication about who provided the power point pages.
7- Drove home, was met with some startling family news from Hubby who was listening to the State of the Union.
8- Worked on the house a bit, checked email and TOS for the first time since 8ish, ate some left over lasagna and tiptoed to bed.
(We're only at the end of Tuesday folks!!)
Tuesday night while I was in bed I was feeling like the lasagna was just not happy. I did not sleep well and was uncomfortable. At 5 AM, I had a bout of diarrhea and at 6 am I was sitting on the toilet again while puking in the garbage can.....
AND SO MY
WEDNESDAY BEGAN.
Hubby snatched the Girlie out of the pack-n-play (as she was giggling) and handed her off to father-in-law. He came back in, brought me a few requested items (like a puke bowl) and told me I could stay in bed until 5 P.M. when he would need to nap for his work stretch. At that moment in time we BOTH thought that was PLENTY of time for me to overcome whatever my issue was.
Grandpa left for home around 9 A.M. and Daddy took over. He cleaned up dishes and folded much laundry and got things picked up. I had a hard time with him doing these sorts of things during the first 10 years of our marriage. He does not pay attention to the same details as I do and it REALLY used to annoy me, somethings still do, but I have learned that some help is better than no help ever and I am now excited when he pitches in when I am in need.
Hubby also spent much time on Wednesday being substitute teacher in our homeschool. We have been talking about Otto listening to NPR's Science Friday and then discussing what it had to say with him. We understand much will be over his head but to expose him to the greater world of knowledge sometime merely HEARING information will set a lattice work that can later be built up. They also listened to some current news programing that Hubby had pre-screened and they pulled out the globe to discuss the places and the issues being discussed. Otto is just starting to be able to read library books as well and they read "Froggy's Halloween" together. :) Yay! School time even while I was convinced I was dying in a non-terminal way. :)
The entire day the aches and pains were horrific. Hubby brought me my computer around mid-day so that I could check in with my closest friends. We email every day and if we don't check in one is likely to get a phone call asking if you are alive. I sent off an email to them and posted my
TOS Review and am SO VERY THANKFUL that I had it worked up ahead of time. I finally got to the point where I could eat a bit and could take ibuprofen which allowed the pain to be controlled and allowed me to nap.
By 5 P.M. I was on the couch, serving the kids leftover lasagna, feeling nauseated and incredibly weak and achy. I managed to get the kids ready for bed, did the bedtime routine and napped on the couch until Hubby got up from a very quick nap. I remember thinking "Ahhh, kids are in bed, I'll sleep through the night and start tomorrow feeling much better."
About 30 minutes later our 6.5 year old got up to use the toilet.... his mannerisms looked familiar. I had actually closed my eyes, still on the couch, and heard him say something quickly, heard a gurgely coughing sound and watched the projectile lasagna vomit spew all over my living room carpet. I then realized he was going after a "spit bucket" and as he continued on his mission he did it again. I shot up and grabbed a towel and managed to CATCH the third vomit. I grabbed a clean towel to put under him, wet towels to put on the chunk covered carpet, and gave him a "spit bucket." I then rushed myself to the boy's bathroom (thankful I had cleaned it well on Monday) to dry heave myself!
About 30 minutes passed and Otto wanted to go back to bed, so off I sent him with a spit bucket. Thirty minutes later he puked up the chocolate chip cookie bar, IN bed, while lying on his back and he DIDN'T REALLY WAKE UP. I had to WAKE him and get him to climb down. I had to keep waking him to get his jammers changed, get his hair wiped down, get him on the couch where I would not let him leave until 3 A.M. I ran to find Hubby's alarm just starting to go off and told him I needed him up NOW that Otto was puking and I tossed myself down at OUR toilet (which was NOT clean) to do more dry heaving. OY.
Hubby helped me a bit as he rushed off to work. Otto seemed settled so I crawled into bed BEGGING for it to be over. I did a LOT of begging with God Tuesday night. I manged to sleep in 20 minute periods between running to Otto's side as he vomited or dry heaved on the couch.
At about
12:30 AM Thursday morning I heard boy number 2 crying and "coughing" in the bedroom. YEP, I now had two. I put them both on the couch with heads at opposite sides.... typed out a Facebook status requesting the "excitement to be at it's peak" and continued the 20 minute sleep stretches.
At 3 AM, Otto begged to go back to bed. He had not thrown up since about 9:30 P.M. and could not really stretch out on the couch with his brother there, so I sent him back to his bunk with a spit bowl. We all then slept from 3 until 7 when Gracie woke up bright eyed and bushy tailed. I moved Abram to his bed with a spit bowl and he ended up sleeping until 11:30!!
The remainder of
Thursday found me finding puke splatters and cleaning them up, cleaning bedding and clothing and using the best used gift my mother ever imposed upon us (her old carpet cleaner) on my carpet. It took two carpet cleaner, SHOUT, dish soap, a scrub brush and dishwasher detergent IN the cleaner to remove those stains enough that they did jump out to anyone looking. I could only work in 10 minute stretches. My body was incredibly weak and I was having very weird sensations of pain. I told my friends that it almost felt like I could feel my body cells exploding in their death from assault. I know that is VERY over-dramatic but I can find no other way to describe the aches, pains and weakness from Thursday.
Hubby had been slightly affected by our illness as well with chills, aches and mild nausea. He had only gotten a very small nap before working all night and driving quite a distance home. He had gone off to bed and when he awoke he found a peppy little 2 year old girl bouncing between her 2 brothers and mom who were just reclined some place, not moving much and usually found wearing a distant stare. I think that about describes the word: lethargy. :)
Thursday night I went to bed PRAYING we would all sleep and from 10:30 P.M until 7 A.M I really don't think I moved. It was wonderful.
Friday we FINALLY GOT TO DO SCHOOL, mama's way. We read about the New Kingdom of Egypt and Four of the great rulers of that time. We did our devotional and worked through our memory (Story of the World and memory verses including our Beatitude verse Matthew 5:3). We picked a vocab word of the day from VocabAhead. We did a reading lesson from Ordinary Parent's Guide to Teaching Reading and worked on a new TOS Review product called Reading Kingdom. Otto learned how to tell time on a clock in 5 minute increments while learning his Times 5 Facts on another TOS Review Product called Times Alive (review to post Monday Jan 31). He worked on Spelling at Spellingcity.com and watched some Speekee. We were all still not fully back but it felt good to do school and get back to a more normal routine as I continued to dig out and remember what day of the week it was.
Saturday we did more of the above school. Yep, we often skip a day during the week and do Saturday school. We are gradually becoming normal and I think it was mid-Saturday that my appetite FINALLY returned.
Sunday is today. We will be having an "Evening Service" of Worship at Home tonight. Hubby has not been sleeping well during the day and was exhausted when he came home. We will eat, clean up the house, get ready for bed and have church with kids in their PJ's right before bed. It sounds like a lovely end to a very crazy, hectic, stressful and busy week.
... or would that be a beautiful beginning to a week that is prayerfully LESS eventful?
So.. if you are actually still reading this far down and if you are still curious about what other people did in SCHOOL this week why don't you run along to Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers'
WEEKLY WRAP-UP.
Perhaps in the weeks coming we might actually have a GOOD week of school with some FUN stuff included and I will jump on into the Linky-Tools at that Weekly Wrap-Up. Here's to hoping....
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